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Jun 30 2008

Why your son or daughter hates sports

Youth Burnout and violence in youth sports have a huge impact on your child’s lifetime goals and outlook on sports. Having witnessed coaches call 10 year old players liars, and a League Board Member / Coach throwing a bat at a dugout full of 7&8 year old players I decided to create and present a mini series / training guide to once again try and promote positive coaching and sports again. Why I walked away from a founding football president and Athletic director position.

Check back often or send me an email to remind you when the series is published Exclusively here on Today.com

Learn How…it’s not just the coaches but parents too
Learn Why…your child is likely to quite before reaching high school

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Jun 29 2008

Can trust and friendships be re established…

Is every man faced with the same dilemma as I have these past few weeks?

Men and women both value and hang on to friendships. Friendships often last a lifetime. When you have a group of married friends, all with children, your bonds become even stronger. Weakness within the circle of friends can destroy the entire circle of trust. These friendships never regain the strength they once had to survive those hard times.

Mike and Monica, Edward and Annabela, Me and Jessica and a divorced man Marcus who has three kids.

This is on tough triangular nightmare I’ll need to keep up.

Annabella and Marcus have been having a secret affair for several years now and he began telling Monica how bad of  a stalker she is. Now Monica and Marcus are now having an affair and Monica tells Jessica how they have sex in the living room while her husband Mike is passed out. Monica know about Marcus and Annabella but Annabella has no idea about Marcus and Monica. My wif Jessica said she knows Marcus has a ting for her the way he stares, gets her drinks and calls her to tell her about his pets. I know she would not stoop that low knowing how badly she was hurt from her previous marriage when he cheated on her. 

My wife, Jessica, hears it all from both Anabella and Monica.  My wife does trust me enough and we are open enough that she tells me. Now we are faced with this adulterated love triangle neither one of us wants to be involved in nor we both know when they shit hits the fan our circle of friendship will be gone forever. If Marcus, Annabella and Monica consider all of such great friends why would they even consider putting us in this situation. Friend ships are hard to come by and with jealousy beginning to show we will be as much in the middle of it because we knew and with held information. What’s a man to do? My wife may divorce me if I let out the secrets. It’s not our place especially knowing the only ones going to get hurt from all this in the long run are all the kids involved.

I am secretly hoping that somehow all three would be able to end it walk away leave the jealousy behind and let us move on with our friendship let our kids move on with there friendships.

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Jun 28 2008

NFL And NCAA Football Bloggers

 

NFL NCAA Football Bloggers

 

 

One of the greatest NFL and NCAA football sites I have come across so far to date this year has been

http://www.realfootball365.com

By far this site is the best open forum sites football has to offer. Its updated football news on both the Pro level and

College levels.  Updated daily news that’s offers to the point entries with an overwhelming amount of comments for you to join in on the discussions.

The site is also one of the top fantasy football research sites. I’m sure league formation and announcements will be coming soon.

I even read about contracts being signed and trades that were reported the following day on ESPN. Talk about up to the minute

breaking news. See for yourself join in the fun and who knows maybe even start a fantasy sports team.

http://www.realfootball365.com

 

The writer of this blog is not affiliated in any way with the realfootball365.com website or any of its advertisers or partners.

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Jun 28 2008

My quote for Today

” When giving someone the world, remember they must give it in return for you to be happy too.”(c) 2008 SJS jr

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Jun 27 2008

My Quote Today

” Hand me downs, recycling at it’s best” (c) 2008 SJS Jr

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Jun 27 2008

My Quote Today

” Hand me downs, Just another form of recycling” (c) sjs jr 2008

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Jun 27 2008

Delta Airlines Animal Shipping Policy

  Boarding Delta Airlines Flight 5326 from Oklahoma City to Cincinnati Ohio, I sat down in my usual seat, the last row window seat.

In the past three years I have flown 16 Delta Flights, 2 Southwest and 4 Continental Flights. Being the guy who loves the window seat I have noticed commercial Airlines almost always load TV, VCR and other goods aboard commercial airlines.

When I looked out the window this time and saw them loading not only the luggage but 15 wooden boxes. With nosy instincts I stared out the window and read on the side of one of the boxes , “exotic birds “.
The boxes measured just 12 inches long by 8 inches high with a small 4 by 8 inch clear window in the front that was wrapped with plastic all the way around it. Stacked three high.

Exotic birds crammed into something smaller than a shoe box? A quick count showed at least 20 in each box.
You thought sitting next to a fat guy made you feel crammed.
With a two hour flight ahead of us, these little birds will be walking on each other and as you can imagine they too have to have to use the restroom.

Knowing airlines routinely ship cargo I heard that they also ship animals. Any thing they can do to reduce my ticket I’m all for but to inhumanely except the shipment of these birds under these condition was just mind boggling to me.

My wife who happens to be a veterinarian has dedicated her life to saving and protecting animals. Hosting a Radio Show I am asked to advertise for companies such as airlines. Not anymore somethings are not worth the money.
Delta Airlines and many other Airlines that allow and except inhumane shipment of any living animal should be fined or boycotted.

When I exited the plane and tried to get a picture of the birds in the box the ground crew member said ” A ton of birds were in with the luggage so if your stuff smells like bird sh^& you’ll know why.” He just laughed. When I took out my camera and tried to take a picture I was met with the famous ” It’s against Homeland Security Laws to photograph out here.” Being a good American citizen I complied and accidental may of hit the button while putting my camera away.

Never question an airline again about what happened to your luggage. I know what happened to it.
If an airline is asked to ship goods or live stock, they get paid double of what you paid for your luggage, than chances are your luggage and many others are taken off your plane and put on another.

My family  and I we will be flying another airline , until Delta responds they will no longer allow inhumane shipment of animals. The conditions I witnessed were horrible for any living creature.

Hopefully they never decide to transport human bodies on commercial flights next to your luggage.

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Jun 26 2008

Socially acceptable pets

Pets are family too. Share photos stories, network even help rescued animals. Join the social pet network. You can rate other pets or find a home for your pets. I even get free advice from Veterinarians. How cool is that?

http://www.streetbloggers.com click on the big headed dog banner half way down the page,

We are actually trying to get an adoption network going with registered users in the US, canada and more pets no longer need to be abuse. We will fight for all living animals rights to live without HARM.

http://www.googlemenews.com http://www.googleplexmedia.com click on the big headed dog banner,

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Jun 26 2008

My quote Today

” I will achieve my goals, I am highly motivated and driven by desire ” (c) 2002 Stevie Stevenson

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Jun 26 2008

Divorced Children

Tips for helping children deal with divorce  

Mom and Dad are divorcing? What is divorce, you wonder.
Divorce means your Mom and Dad will not longer be married to each other. This means you will have only one of your parents in each household. Some of your time will be spent at Mom’s house and other time spent at Dad’s. 

Although divorce may seem very scary to you right now. You should understand, from an experienced child of divorce, and one who is raising three boys from my marriage. It is nothing that you or anyone has done. It does not mean MOM and Dad do not love each other and nothing will ever stop them from loving you.  

Divorce is a very common issue today, almost 1 in 3 families experience divorce. It does not mean you have to choose a parent or take sides. 

Tell both your parents that you as both their child it is critical to you emotionally that you be allowed to spent equal time with both of them. You must be allowed open communication and allowed free access to both parents. If you want to call your Mom while your with your Dad than you should be permitted to do so at that time. The same goes if you are with your Mom you should be allowed to phone your Dad at that time.  

If either one of your parents talks bad about the other parent tell them right away that you do not wish to hear them speak negative about your Mom or Dad. Do not take sides, Just simply explain ” That it hurts you to hear anyone talk bad about either of your parents.” 

After the divorce one or both your parents may begin dating someone new or may even marry someone else. At first a lot of emotional feelings will come into play. Give it a chance having a step parent is not always bad. Being a Father of 3 boys and divorced from their Mom,I am very confident if anything bad ever happen to me her new husband, My boys step father would be a great person to continue and provide for them. 

Both parents should be fully involved in the decisions made with the children of divorce. Make sure you to are apart of those decisions. Many schools in New Jersey now offer Children of divorce programs for kids who experienced divorce. Understand you are not alone millions of kids have experienced divorce and have gone on and became actors, baseball players, football players and even Commanded Armies. Try reading a book or starting your own Social network group for kids. http://www.ning.com.
I ‘d also recommend you read Mom’s house Dad’s house by Isolina Ricci, PHA, whose breakthrough work 22 years ago resulted in the first edition of Mom’s House, Dad’s House, is a licensed family therapist, educator, and mediator who now heads the statewide office of Family Court services for the California judicial branch.    <a rel=”nofollow” href=”javascript: nonactHide();”>
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